I believe it’s thoroughly unfair to expect all readers will know the warning signs for abusive relationships and recognize them in the books they read simply on their own personal ability to do so. It is dangerous to assume everyone who reads your book will be educated on matters such as abuse. It is even more dangerous when it seems that the authors writing these books aren’t cognizant enough to recognize the toxicity they promote in their novels in the first place. Teenagers, for which many of these books are written, aren’t always going to have been introduced to this information.
Twilight, New Moon, Eclipse, and Breaking Dawn by Stephenie Meyer
Shatter Me, Destroy Me, Unravel Me, Fracture Me, Ignite Me, Restore Me by Tahereh Mafi
→ Rereading Shatter Me to Expose the Abuse Romanticism
→ Chapter One
→ Chapter Two
→ Chapter Three
→ Chapter Four
→ Chapters Five & Six
→ Chapters Seven & Eight
→ Chapter Nine
→ Shatter Me Introduction
→ Old Review
More Than Friends by Monica Murphy
→ Review — discusses at length the level of relationship toxicity.
Roseblood by A. G. Howard
→ Review — several problematic abuse romanticizing issues are discussed at various points.
Fifty Shades of Grey
→ Review — features links and discusses the problematic pieces.
Other Posts Discussing the Romanticizing of Abuse:
If you are aware of any incredibly problematic books that romanticize abuse and have written about it, please provide the link for me in the comments or e-mail me at firstname.lastname@example.org. I would like to include other voices as well.